Month: February 2016

Five glass of wisdom to know your purpose of life in this modern era:

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When I woke up this morning, I’d a serious doubt rolled over my head. Everything around me has its own purpose, my mattress shrouding me from cold, my clock revealing my tardiness, my wardrobe exhibiting my flamboyance, my house, shoes, chair, bag, bottle, book, bike…..etc. Even the stone that my mom kept outside was better than me to break the coconut. What am I supposed to do? What’s the purpose of my existence? What am I doing in this earth?

I guess you too had this kind of perplexed questions, but probably in your shower. Don’t sourpuss; these questions were already found by the great minds over centuries. And fortunately some found the answers for these questions and left us their wisdom in the lines of their lives.              I don’t want to bewilder and anxiety you by mix up the religious speculation and physiology evolution. I’d gather this wisdom and squeeze them in the cask as wine. Now graith your tongue to savor the taste of five glass of wisdom which going to change your conscience about life.

1: Script your profile (First glass of wisdom)

There is a famous song in Tamil “Unnai Arinthal Nee Unnai Arinthal Ulagathil Poradalam, ooyarthalum thaalnthalum thalai vanagamal nee vaalalam”. This means if you know yourself fully you can fight in this world, no matter if you raise or down there’s no need to kneel before anyone. So to know yourself you should first write your profile. That should include your skills, interests, hobbies, qualifications, achievements, good and bad deeds, character and behavior. And also ask your best friends to write about you from true to their heart. This practice is for know your abilities, capabilities and your potential to achieve the goal. After profiling, you got to analyze and remove the residue of negative habits and try to pure yourself before touching next glass of  wisdom.

2: Greet everyday with love (Second glass of wisdom)

The first glass only revealed you the secret of yourself, not your purpose of existence. Look around, you weren’t the only creature who hosts in this planet. If you think you’re solitude from others, then you’ve must be the fool. Off course the space between you and the other man might be by miles, but the element of air filled the space of your distance, element of land connected with your footsteps with others, the element of water moisture every inch of your body that passes by the others.

Love the sun that healing your bruises in your heart and retrieving your energy. Love the air that making you feels alive at each second of your life. Love your parents who makes you feel complete love & affection and gave you the identity for living in this world. Love your friends, siblings, tutor who show their kind, nourishes, aid and guidance. Love your foe, who gave you the enduring pain. Finally love the nature (God) that structured you.

3: Perceive the strategy of life (Third glass of wisdom)

The second glass would figure out about how to approach your life. For triumph the real world you have to abstract the strategy of the great minds. There are 700 million people living in this world. Only 2% (14 million) of people are famous & richer. What about remaining 98% (686 million) of people? Well, these 98% people are persistently helping the 2% to become richer and powerful, but How so? For ex: Steve jobs were also on the 98% of people before he started the He then came to know the magic of 3i’s (Idea, Invent, Implement). Off course he failed, he lost his company once but didn’t lost determination of holding the throne of success. Don’t ever think your idea was so stupid, don’t regret if your invention fails, and don’t ever scare to implement your model for simple critics. After all we’re just humans, like laugh, cry, snore, success & failure is also a part of nature; even if we try hard we can’t resist the failure.

“If you want to live a happy life, tie to a goal not to people or things”-Albert Einstein.

4: Excitement about everything (Fourth glass of wisdom)

Once I asked my friend, what would you wish if god appears before you? He said that he would change every person in the planet in to a child. “Child” I asked him with amaze. He replied “When we were child we really won’t care about anything but are toys. We play in the meadows with friends and fellow guys. We excite about everything like new toys, dress, shoes, festival balloons, even 2Rs pencil would excite us the whole day. We like what we do, even it’s so stupendous. We create our own ambition in life that which doesn’t exists in the world. There’s no famine for joy, happiness were surround us like clouds and rupture our heart and sizzle the felicity. It was like a days of dream. We’ve hadn’t experiencing this now of about even 10%. We just owned a car, house, bike, a pocket of money, but not the excitement as like our childhood. There is still feeling like inadequate.” My lips were like patched; I don’t have relevant answer for him. I was totally agreed with him. I’m a terrible artist when I’m child, but for some reason I was stopped. I don’t know why. Perhaps I thought it was too childish, but what I stopped really was my excitement in drawing.                                       It’s not just about drawing; some may sing, dance, act, play on their childhood and stopped it completely thinking it was way beyond their maturity. Well now it’s not too late bring your childhood back, bring your excitement back. Start kindles your inner fire, search your real interest and act according to it. Say it proudly that “I’m happy and that’s because I’m childish.”

5: The final call (Fifth glass of wisdom)

This is your final glass of wisdom. You’ve had already gulped the four glasses that teaches you secret of your life, approaching the life, strategy for life and excitement in life but I still didn’t revealed you the purpose of life. The real purpose was one’s life is change. Yes! “Change”. If you read the life history of each successful personalities, there’ll be some kind of changes was brought in to world. For ex: Sir Edison invented an electric lamp, before that only a fire torch and candles were used. So Edison was the change. Sir Einstein discovered the general relativity theory. Before that Newton’s law was used to measure the distance unmandated planets. So Sir Einstein was the change. Mahatma Ghandiji was brought the independence to India by non-violence. Before that people thought only dagger and rifles will bring the freedom. So mahatma Ghandhiji was the change. Many more examples are there but it’s not only they could bring the change, we too can bring the change to the world which is really needed today’s life. So dream now, that you’ll be the change one day and bring a better world to our future generation. This is a real purpose of one’s life. These five glasses of wisdom will definitely reveal your purpose of existence.                                            “Be the change you want to see in the world” – Mahatma Ghandhiji.  





He has a machine gun but I’m having a kitchen knife


Basically this article is not about neither military grade weapons nor house wife’s kitchen knife. It’s about the person’s inferiority complex of himself by comparing others. I’ll show you 5 rules to eliminate this habit and bring the courage to feel you high as sky. I bet after reading this 5 rules you’ll see yourself as like as your idol.

1: Leave the virtual and ride in real

The main causing body of inferiority complex is brooding over the past and future. Thoughts are good but it should not halt in your mind to transform into worries. Your present world is a real, that’s where we going to score runs not in the past or future. Stir up the inner cosmos to bright like stars. Get out from the room, walk daily, meet new people and attend your call this is what real life nothing wont misshapen like in our dream.

“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent“. Eleanor Roosevelt.

2: Adequate your cup with beneficial work

To follow the first rule we’d to acquire knowledge in our respective field. “Search what you like, learn what you like and like what you learn” this was a secret mantra of most of our idols. If we turn out to be busy in our work and enjoy it from the heart, then there’ll be no inferior arises within us. Read books even if you make mistake, sketch the art even if its looks crap, plays your game even if you knock down.

“I didn’t believe in Beatles, I believe in me”. John Lennon (The Walrus).

3: Exhibit your talent and accomplish your qualities

In the 3rd rule, we’ve to recess our talent to the world. It’s fair or ugly never mind we should just show case our work. Don’t get panic about critics after all what we going to lose. We should say to ourselves “I putted a lot of endeavor in my work; critics which is approaching me won’t put me down the grave. I love me and my work, so there’s no chance for despair feelings by any kind of criticism.”

“If you start throwing stones on yapping dogs, you can’t achieve your goal”. Sir Winston Churchill.

4: Don’t compare yourself with another

I don’t have anything new to say under this topic. But if you noticed this topic would be the first sub-topic of most self-motivational blogs, but I wouldn’t do that because you can’t simply stop compare yourself with others. If you already had a new shirt, where there’s need of compare with others. Here I mention the new shirt as the first 3 rules. These 3 rules were already used to adequate our vacant feelings and fill them with good habits & beneficial work.

“Don’t compare yourself with anyone in this world…if you do so, you are insulting yourself”. Bill gates

5: Follow it as your routine life

We can’t achieve something at a speed of lightning bolt; practice and patience is the relevant factors to pursue what we wishing for. So keep practicing everyday and changes will automatically arose within us. This daily routine practice will throw your inferiority complex and feed you new essential habits. Don’t get frustrated if you lose the chain in routine; start again from the beginning, whose going to blame you. So next time don’t compare your plates by how big they are just view what they serving on those plates. I think you got it.

And by the way, according to the crime statics from federal bureau investigation (FBI) in 2015 “five times as many murders were committed with kitchen knives than were committed with riffles”, so be happy of who you are, no matter how you look or how you perform.